Pentecost 19C
October 19, 2025 (Confirmation Day)
Genesis 32, Luke 18, Psalm 121
INTRODUCTION
Luke will tell us at the beginning of our Gospel reading today that the parable Jesus tells is about “the need to pray always and not to lose heart.” But I think this story, and all our texts, are about much more than prayer – they are about the joys and challenges of living a life of faith, and the many different forms our prayer – that is, our relationship with God – can take!
Though I’ll be touching on several readings in my sermon, I want to give you some context for our first reading in particular, because it is such a richer story when you know what’s happening here. Here’s what you should know: since Jacob was a baby, he has been a trickster, one who has been especially hard on his twin brother, Esau. In fact, his brother was so mad that Jacob stole his birthright and blessing right out from under him, that he threatened to kill Jacob. So Jacob had to run off to family in a different town, where he acquired two wives, two handmaids, 12 children, and a bunch of livestock. But now Jacob has angered that family, too, and is heading back to his family of origin, hoping that Esau will receive and forgive him. Terrified and alone, in today’s story Jacob will encounter some unidentified being who it seems might be God, and, as Old Testament scholar Rachel Wrenn comments, the ensuing wrestling match is “perhaps the best description of the life of faith in the entire Bible.” This encounter sets us up well to hear from 2 Timothy, and the danger of false teachings, and from Luke, about a widow so persistent she will not stop asking for justice until it comes.
As you listen, recall some of the more challenging moments in your own life of faith, as well as some of the rewarding ones. Where did you see God, both in the challenges and in the rewards? Let’s listen.
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Paul Granlund's portrayal of Jacob wrestling, at Gustavus Adolphus College in St. Peter, MN |
Grace to you and peace from God our Father and our Lord Jesus Christ. Amen.
What does a life of faith look like?
Today, four young people in our congregation will stand before you and affirm the promises made in baptism, essentially saying, “Yes, now that I can think, act, and believe for myself, I am here to say that I believe those things that were promised at my baptism, and I promise, with God’s help, to keep living into the covenant of baptism and this life of faith to the best of my ability.” It is an opportunity for all of us to recall those promises for ourselves, and to reflect on this question: what does it look like to live a life of faith?
Sometimes faith is easy and satisfying. In one-on-one sessions with each of these fine young people, I asked them to describe their faith to me, and tell me when and where they notice it. They thoughtfully talked about Jesus as a friend, a companion, like a big brother who can be counted on. They said they lean on God especially when they are struggling and need support during hard times. They said they feel God’s presence especially in community, and when they feel close to nature, for example at camp at LCLC. Yes! All of this makes my pastor heart sing, to hear that they know this faith will be there for them in all of these times.
But I have to tell you also – while faith in Christ is a comfort during hard times, it does not always make us feel good in the moment. Sometimes, faith is like a wrestling match – which is why I love this story about Jacob wrestling with God through the night. Sometimes faith is reading a passage in scripture and saying, “Wait, what? This doesn’t sit right,” and wrestling with it until we can find some grace in there. Sometimes faith is praying our hearts out in the wee hours of the morning, and waiting for a response, and getting nothing, but coming back the next day to pray again. It is asking, “Why, God? Why this? Why now? Please help!” and not getting the answer we want right away, or ever. Yes, sometimes faith is a wrestling match, and one we’d rather not be a part of.
But often in faith, and also like Jacob, this wrestling match with God becomes a blessing. We don’t always see that in the midst of the match, but as the sun begins to peek over the horizon, and day begins to break, we can look around and say, “Where is the blessing here?” and lo and behold, we see it. I have told these kids about one of my own wrestling matches when I was their age and I was diagnosed with cancer for the first time. It is not easy to see blessing under the shadow of cancer, but through that experience, I can see now that I was immensely blessed, because I learned so much about myself, about being a part of a church community and youth group, and about God. And the thing about wrestling is that it cannot be done without being contact with the one with whom you are wrestling; through that dark night of the soul, when he was afraid and alone, Jacob never lost contact with God. And he left the encounter changed – a changed name, a limp, and a heart humbled and ready to encounter his brother in the next scene. Sometimes, faith is like that.
How else does faith look? Sometimes, faith looks like a call to seek justice for the oppressed and vulnerable, and speaking truth to power, like in this parable from Luke. In fact, this is explicitly one of the promises our confirmands will make today, and that their parents made on their behalf over a decade ago: “to strive for justice and peace in all the earth.” Yes, justice-seeking is such an important part of faith, it is mentioned right there in the baptismal liturgy! But what does it mean?
First of all, this sort of justice is not the vengeance, “they got what they deserve” sort. That sort of justice is in God’s hands, not ours. No, this sort of justice is the sort that goes hand-in-hand with peace: a state in which everyone has what they need. And when everyone has what they need, then we can experience peace. Know justice, know peace. And this widow in Jesus’ parable knows what it takes. It takes standing up to powerful people to demand it, even if you have comparatively less power. Who is weaker and more vulnerable than a widow? (At least this is true in biblical times, when women required a man for security and income.) Yet this woman asks and asks, even knowing how powerful and unjust this judge is. And to be clear, this is no demure widow. The word that is translated here as “coming to wear me out”? The first definition listed for that Greek word is, “to beat black and blue, to smite so as to cause bruises and livid spots.” Even the second, less graphic definition shows her scrappiness: “to give one intolerable annoyance.” That is what it means to “strive for justice and peace.” It is relentlessly calling and visiting the people in power, even and especially the unjust ones, until they hear you. It is repeating yourself over and over again. It is punching in the face the very idea of injustice. That is how baptismal faith looks. And, Luke tells us, that is sometimes how prayer looks – not just folding your hands before bed in the safety of your bedroom, but like action, like doing something to bring about what you know is right.
The Rev. Dr. Barbara Lundblad preached a powerful sermon on this text at the Festival of Homiletics in 2019. She asserted that if we pray without also working for justice, our prayers are empty. If we work for justice without prayer, we will think it all depends on us. If we pray and work for justice, but without faith, we will fall into despair when justice isn't done. Prayer and justice and faith: what Jesus had joined together, let no one set asunder. [as paraphrased on Pulpit Fiction podcast]
Which brings me to the last thing I’ll offer today about what a life of faith looks like: it looks like trust. In other words, while our baptism calls us into wrestling with God in difficult times, and participating with God in bringing about God’s kingdom here on earth, in the end we trust that God has this under control. As the Psalmist beautifully articulates, “I lift up my eyes to the hills; from where is my help to come? My help comes from the Lord, the maker of heaven and earth.” The promise of that help is why we can be so bold as to baptize our children, and why these young people can stand before you today and recommit to living into their baptismal promises. It is because we trust that God will watch over us as we sleep, and be the shade at our right hand. We trust that God will preserve us from all evil, and keep our life. We trust that God will watch over our going out and our coming in, from this time – whether baptism, or confirmation, or while we are praying or wrestling or punching injustice in the face, or even on some random, uneventful Tuesday – God will watch over us from this time forth forevermore.
I pray for each of these incredible, faithful young people – for Noah, Alice, Nate, and Max – as they embrace and step more fully into these promises today. And I pray for all of us, that as we wrestle and pray and strive for justice and peace in all the earth, that we would always believe in our hearts and know deep in our bones that God walks right beside us, all along the way, assuring us that eventually the morning will dawn, the blessing will be given, and justice, peace, and new life will come.
Let us pray… God of justice and peace, it is not always easy to be faithful. Give us the courage to do it anyway: to wrestle, to pray, to stand up against injustice, and to trust you through it all. In the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit. Amen.