Monday, April 17, 2017

Maundy Thursday 2017 Sermon: The challenge of loving one another

Maundy Thursday 2017
April 13, 2017
John 13:1-17, 31b-35
1 Corinthians 11:23-26

Grace to you and peace from God our Father and our Lord Jesus Christ. Amen.
            The texts we hear on this Maundy Thursday are the same ones each year. Whenever there is a day like this, on which we hear the same texts every year, the preacher’s challenge becomes: What angle can we take this year to preach the good news in a new way? But this year, my mind didn’t go to all the possible angles; rather, it was drawn again and again to Jesus’ new commandment: “love one another as I have loved you.”
Whenever we are drawn so relentlessly to a certain phrase of scripture like this, we can understand that as the Holy Spirit trying to speak that particular word to our particular place in life. In our case, I look around and see that division seems to be the new norm, and this past couple weeks in particular, every couple of days there is more devastating or disheartening news – a bombing here, a beating there, chemical weapons and military backlash, dozens killed unjustly, people living in fear for their lives as they know them. Into this context, these words, “love one another,” so simple, suddenly seem so much more important, even as they feel so much more elusive.
And yet it is for this world – this broken, hurting, divided, angry, reactive world – that Jesus died. It is this world that we carry with us into these Three Days during which we remember Christ’s horrible death. It is for this world that we hope, as we look forward to the resurrection. It is this world, this very one, that needs as much as it ever has to know that Jesus Christ loves us and died for us.
When I refer to “the world,” maybe you are imagining the global scene. Or perhaps right now your world is smaller, as you imagine the particular strife facing your family or dear friends right now. Or maybe the world that occupies your attention is your church, your workplace, your school, your town, or your country. Whatever division and brokenness you carry with you today, join me in bringing it to this question: what does it look like to “love one another” as Jesus loves us? What does it mean to “love one another” in the particular brokenness you are feeling tonight?
I do hope you will reflect on that question throughout these three days and
David Paynter, Jesus washing disciples' feet
http://diglib.library.vanderbilt.edu/act-imagelink.pl?RC=54318
into the Easter season, but tonight, I will offer you a few of my own reflections.
So, looking at the story of the foot-washing that we just heard, and bringing that story to this broken world, what does it look like to “love one another”?
First, it looks like humility. It is a willingness to kneel at someone’s feet, to become the lesser, to put someone else ahead of you. It is the teacher becoming the servant.
How might this translate into our particular pains and world-weariness? I find when I am in pain, and maybe this is your experience as well, I want to make sure my needs are known. It’s basic human instinct, right? When we hurt, we seek to have our needs, whether physical or emotional, met! But loving someone with humility might mean listening to someone else’s needs and story before sharing your own. It might mean making an effort even to “try on” someone else’s opinion or viewpoint for a while, to really consider it, before putting your own on the table.
Michael and I have been watching the new show, Designated Survivor. In the first episode, a massive explosion takes out the entire US government during the State of the Union Address, leaving the “designated survivor” – the one person kept off premises just in case such a thing should happen – as the president. The show, then, is about how the Secretary of Housing and Urban Development, a
Kiefer Sutherland as President Kirkman
really good guy who had no interest in being president, rebuilds the government and tries to win the trust and respect of a country who would never have voted for him. In a recent episode, “President Kirkman” holds a town hall to address questions about his new agenda. In his preparations for that, it becomes clear he is not a natural in this format: his staff tells him he is too professorial, aloof and impersonal. They urge him, in an effort to build trust and rapport with the people, that “This is about them, not you. Connect with them.” So when a former factory worker stands up and expresses his concern about losing his job at age 55, the president first responds, “My dad and grandpa were factory workers…” But then he pauses, chuckles, and turns to the man, saying, “But this time isn’t about me. It’s about you.” And he goes on to acknowledge the real and deep fears this man is feeling. It is a moving moment where we can see this shift, where he actually connects with not only this man, but the America people who also live in fear. In that moment, he becomes their president, and healing can begin.
It was beautifully portrayed on the screen, but – oh, is this sort of connection ever difficult! When we have conversations, we want to relate! We want to connect to our own life. It takes a lot of energy to dwell completely in the needs of another, without adding your own two cents. This sort of connection takes a lot of humility, but this humble connection that Jesus demonstrates is what heals our divisions and our pain, wherever in our life they occur.
Even as “love one another” looks like the effort to humbly see another, it also looks like vulnerability – a willingness to be truly seen. It is letting another see not just the shiny exterior you work so hard to make look presentable and acceptable to the world, but also the dark, embarrassing parts – your dirty feet, as well as your broken heart. Spoken about our particular world weariness, that might mean admitting to someone that you are wrong, or at least that someone else is right. It might mean doing the hard work of looking at a conflict and considering your own role in that conflict – whether your role was active or merely complicit (did you or could you do anything to stop the pain from occurring?). It might mean being brave enough to say something important into a group where you know others disagree. It might mean admitting you don’t have the answers.
Each of these runs so much against our grain when we are feeling hurt – once again, our instinct is to protect our hearts, not to bare them! We may seek that protection by hiding, or by lashing out, but it is not generally our first instinct to respond to pain by opening our hearts to the possibility of more pain. Peter shows us this when he insists Jesus not wash his feet. I usually read this like, “Jesus, you have no business washing my feet!” but I wonder if there is also a bit of, “I don’t want you seeing that embarrassing part of me.” But, as Jesus points out, this sort of exposure and vulnerability is required to have a close and meaningful share in a relationship with Christ.
Finally, “love one another” looks like selflessness – that is, a willingness to put aside your pain, and still care deeply about another, even the one who caused your pain. One of the most remarkable things about this text is actually in the missing verses, in which Judas betrays Jesus, and the ones directly following, in which Jesus foretells Peter’s denial. And yet, even though he knew both of these things would happen, Jesus still washes Judas’ and Peter’s feet. He still breaks bread with them. He still dies for them, and for all those who would in the future betray or deny someone they love, who loves them.
Maybe the magnitude of this is lost on us, because this is Jesus and all. But think of this: Jesus looks out at this group of disciples, knows that one is about to turn him over to have him killed, another is going to deny – three times! – that he even knows him, and the rest will desert him in his hour of need. If you knew someone was about to do those things to you, what would you do?  How would you treat them? Would you kneel down to serve them in the most intimate way imaginable? Would you sit down to a meal with them and tell them how much you love them? Would you throw yourself in harm’s way to save their life? I think most of us, in this situation, would have a hard time even looking that person in the eye. Initiating a conversation with them to find some understanding might even seem impossible – let alone any of these things Jesus does for Peter, Judas, and all the rest. Indeed, what Jesus does for us. Yet this is the sort of love Jesus calls us to: “love one another as I have loved you.”
Loving one another with humility, vulnerability, and selflessness – these are tall orders, each one. Loving and serving friends or even strangers is one thing, but on this night, Jesus calls us into loving relationship, even with those who have hurt, betrayed, denied and deserted us, those who have acted as we wish they hadn’t, those who make us angry.
This is the task and the call of the Church. And nowhere is this love more profoundly experienced than in the Lord’s Supper, in which we remember Jesus’ self-giving on our behalf. We see that bread that is his body, broken before our eyes, and remember that Christ knows and understands our own brokenness, and loves us still. We come forward, hands outstretched, to receive this humble, vulnerable, selfless love of Christ, indeed to receive concretely the grace and forgiveness of God. We come forward, carrying with us all of our brokenness, all of our pain, and that of our world, and receive that morsel with those words, “given for you.” For you, Jesus says, I have loved the world. For you, I have shown that love. For you, I have died, so that you might find in me life eternal.
And as we receive Jesus’ brokenness for our own wholeness, we remember how Jesus calls us, too, into this sort of love, even as we are empowered to follow that command: to love one another as Christ loved us. May we find in this sacrament both command and empowerment to live out this command in our families, our churches, and our world.

Let us pray… Lord Christ, on the night in which you were betrayed, you showed us the profound way you call us to love one another: with humility, vulnerability, and selflessness. As we receive the sacrament tonight, and as we walk with you through these Three Days and into eternal life, make us willing servants, equipped and empowered to follow your command in our world. In the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit. Amen.

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