Friday, September 23, 2016

A year of Grace Victoria


Getting used to birthday crown
September 16, 2016

My dear Grace,

Wooo! Birthday!!
I have been meaning to sit down and write to you since you turned ONE a couple weeks ago! I can’t believe I have enjoyed your delightful self for a whole year of my life already. I wanted to tell you a bit about what you are like as a big one-year-old girl, and what it is like to be your mom.

You are: charming, giggly, creative, compassionate, curious, adventurous, funny, loving, adaptable, joyful, grounded, brave, confident. You love drumming on things (furniture, toys, your parents, my belly that is growing with your sibling inside, the dog), so Grandma Lois gave you a drum for your birthday with mallets and everything, and you knew just what to do with it! When you drum you get what we call “drummer face” – mouth open, eyes wide and exhilarated. You are fascinated by the piano, and love to climb up on the chair and play it. To our surprise, you have recently learned to
Billy Joel in training
whistle! You also love to dance – every time we turn on music, no matter the genre, you start swaying, or bouncing, or bopping, or conducting, or doing whatever the music moves you to do. We signed you up for music and movement class, starting tomorrow, and I think you will LOVE it! We can’t wait to see where your natural propensity toward music, rhythm, and movement will take you!

You are walking. Man oh man. You have been taking one or two steps for several weeks already, and cruising around the furniture with confidence for quite some time, but the week before your birthday you really took off. First it was three steps, then it was five, then it was all the way across the room. Now, two weeks after your birthday, after lots of practice at daycare and at home, you are a champ. Usually, whenever you walk, you grin and sometimes giggle, so delighted you are to be mobile! You and I just went for a walk down our street, and you walked almost the whole thing yourself, sometimes holding my hand, sometimes venturing off on your own to explore some plant that caught your fancy, then returning. (You especially enjoyed the house with the sprinkler! I couldn’t tear you away, as you stood there, giggling with delight every time water hit your sweet face.) You fell several times, but never cried. Just stood up again, all by yourself, and kept walking, whatever the terrain. I was very proud of you. We talked about the things we saw, noticing colors and different textures.

Do I have something on my face?
You love to EAT. For being such a little peanut (you are in the 25th percentile for weight and height), you sure eat like a champ. You will often grab food in both hands, and try to fit it all in your mouth at once. You can’t get it in fast enough! Seriously, child, I have seen you eat as much at one meal as a grown person might eat. You would much rather feed yourself (you sometimes just take the spoon out of my hand), and usually we let you. You prefer your food cold. You’ll eat almost anything, really, but you especially like banana, peanut butter, rice cakes, any fresh fruit, peas, and mac & cheese. The only thing you have consistently turned away is my lentil soup (which is delicious, by the way, so you’re definitely being silly – but I kid you not, you looked at me like I tried to hurt you and scraped it off your tongue!). We’ve also discovered that you may have an allergy to eggs and strawberries, but we are really hoping you grow out of them!

You love to PLAY. You have an assortment of toys, and you go through phases with them, but you have always loved holding something small in your hand and carrying it around with you (blocks, lego, my phone…). You don’t really have a favorite stuffed animal, but you love your various blankies. You hold them and bunch them up to go to sleep, you hold them when we take you out of your crib in the morning, you love to play with them. No favorite, really; you love them all! Grandma Lo made you a very special pink bear for your birthday, and you have enjoyed this, cuddling her from time to time, and drumming on her plush belly. I hope she will be a
Klaus looks on, concerned
very good friend for you. Uncle Luke and Auntie Chunzi gave you a cool green bike, which you enjoy using as a rolling stool – yikes! When your legs get a little longer, you’ll love riding this; when I push you around on it, you smile very big.

For all of your delightful qualities, you are also decidedly a toddler. “Terrible twos start at one,” they say, and it is true: you definitely have a defiant streak. When you are grumpy or tired, you slump over and whimper. When someone takes a toy away from you, you cry like it’s the worst day of your life. When we move you to somewhere you don’t want to be, you arch your back, throw your head back, and either squawk like an angry bird, or scream bloody murder. At this point, these tantrums are mostly still cute, and they don’t happen all that often, and they are over quickly, usually ending with you smiling up at us and throwing your arms around our legs. We know you are just trying to figure out how to manage this complex world, and we are here for you to help you do just that!

The week before your birthday, you had a tummy bug that resulted in a short hospital stay because your glucose levels had gotten so low. It was scary, but you were in good hands and we never doubted you would pull through. You were so
In the hospital
brave, such a trooper, so strong. I just admired you so much all the way through – even when you didn’t feel well, you were still your delightful self, charming all the doctors and nurses, eager to play, cuddling up to us when you didn’t feel good. I loved you so much before that, but during that experience, my heart nearly burst with how much I love you. You are amazing, Grace.

We love you so much, Grace Victoria! We have loved you more and more every day for a whole year, and that love continues to increase exponentially each day! I am so grateful you are my daughter, and I can’t wait to see who you continue to become.

                                                                                                Love,

Your ever adoring mom





Couple more favorite pictures:
All ready for her birthday party.

Helping with car shopping








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