Monday, January 13, 2020

Sermon: Impartial love (Jan. 12, 2020)

Baptism of our Lord A
January 12, 2019
Matthew 3:13-17

INTRODUCTION
         On this first Sunday after Epiphany, we celebrate the Baptism of our Lord. We jump from the babe in the manger being visited by kings from afar, to a 30-year-old Jesus at the river Jordan, with his eccentric cousin John, asking to be baptized by him. Christians have long had questions about this event – why would Jesus have to be baptized if he is without sin? One reason is that by being baptized himself, Jesus ties himself closer to us and our own experience. And so, as we observe Jesus’ baptism, we can learn something about our own. So as you listen to this story, consider what it has to say about what happens for us when we are baptized.
         The other appointed readings for this day set up this story nicely. In Isaiah, we will hear one of what are called the Servant Songs – poems about God’s “servant” who looks an awful lot like Jesus, but whom we could also interpret and understand as “servant people.” As you listen to Isaiah, I encourage you to think about it that way – as referring not to Jesus, or not only to Jesus, but to servant people, those who claim faith in God.
The Psalm will proclaim the power of the Lord’s voice – the same voice that we will hear in the baptism story when the heavens open and a dove descends.
And in Acts, we will hear another baptism story, though we don’t actually hear the part about the baptism. We will hear Peter’s speech before the baptism, in which he declares that “God shows no partiality” – he says this because Cornelius and his family are Gentiles (non-Jews), and in fact are the first Gentiles to believe in Christ and be baptized. In this story, we will see how the love of God is not limited only to those who are like us, but is for everyone. An important message in these divided times! 
         As you listen to these, just watch for as many baptismal connections as you can find. Water, voice, call, washing – any images at all that help you to reflect on the continuing meaning of your baptism in your life of faith. Let’s listen.
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Grace to you and peace from God our Father and our Lord Jesus Christ. Amen.
            There was a first-grade teacher who was frustrated in her job, and seriously thinking about quitting. She changed her mind one night while attending a night class at the local university. This is her story in her own words:
A friendly woman who sat next to me leaned over and said, "Say, I met an admirer of yours the other day. I was at the bus station waiting for my son, and was noticing a Hispanic woman and her little daughter waiting for a bus. The mother didn't speak much English, but I began chatting with the little girl. She told me they were on their way to Colorado to join her father. She was now in the second grade, and she mentioned the name of her teacher. Then she opened her little purse and took a worn picture from it and said, 'But this is my very favorite teacher. I really love her!'"
My friend went on, "I looked at that picture and was astonished that I knew the person she showed me. It was you!" "Do you remember her name?" I asked. "Yes, it was Adelina." Suddenly Adelina's little brown face began to emerge in my mind. Adelina. Just another little first grader. But she said, "This is the teacher I really love." She had shown my picture to a stranger and said, "This is the teacher I really love." All the way home that night that phrase boomed and throbbed in my mind: This is the teacher I really love. With that kind of approval, I resolved to change, not my profession, but my attitude.
            How powerful such simple words can be: “This is the one whom I really love!” They are words that really can change our attitude – so much of our attitude, after all, is shaped by how people treat us, and that sort of affirmation is really powerful.
Unfortunately, critical words have the same power, maybe even more. How often our whole day might take a turn for the worse if just one person criticizes us or says something mean. Do you do this too? Like, you could all file out of church today and say, “Great sermon today, pastor, really dynamite!” but if just one person walks out saying, “Don’t worry, not all of your sermons can be good. Better luck next time!” Guess which comment will nag at me the rest of the day? The one negative voice! We can do our best to let problems and criticisms slide down our backs like rain off a duck, but somehow, they can still find a way to bother us.
            Why is that? Brené Brown is a researcher at the University of Houston, and the focus of her research is vulnerability and shame. Her TED Talk on vulnerability is one of the most watched TED talks of all time. She argues that we are a culture deeply affected by shame, at every age. She defines shame as something different from guilt. Guilt, she says, is, “I did something bad.” It’s about your action. Shame, however, is, “I am bad.” It is a belief that there is something about us that is unlovable, wrong, and worthless. So any time someone says something to us that affirms this deep-seated and destructive fear, we readily believe it. “You see?” we think. “I am bad. I was right. I’m worthless. I don’t deserve love.”
            So how do we combat these feelings of inadequacy, this sense that who and what we are is somehow lacking? How do we move from scarcity – the belief that we are not enough, not smart enough, skinny enough, organized enough, tough enough, you fill in the blank – to the knowledge that we are enough, that we are worthy of love?
Today’s Gospel lesson about Jesus’ baptism gives us a start. I have always been particularly drawn to that last part of Jesus’ baptism, the part where the voice comes from heaven and says, “This is my Son, the Beloved, with whom I am well pleased.” Here God, in heavenly fashion, announces to the world, “Hey everyone that’s my son! I love him! I am pleased with him!” Don’t we all long to hear words like that from those we care about? To know that we so loved?
Well of course God says that about Jesus, we think. But Jesus was worthy, and sinless, and perfect. But me? Well let’s just say I’m a far cry from Jesus!
Ah, but you see, in this case we are not. Because these are the same words we hear not only in Jesus’ baptism, but in our own baptism as well. “This is my beloved child,” God says with each Spirit-infused splash of water. “This one here. This one is mine, and I am well pleased with them.” These words speak to hearts that often ache with the pain of inadequacy, with the fear of not being enough. “This is my child, my beloved.”
Sometimes it is all too easy to forget we are God’s children, isn’t it? When we’re in despair, when we are having doubts, when we mess up big time and hurt ourselves or people we love, it is hard to feel like God’s children, much less like God’s beloved children! Yet even so, God says in baptism, to us and to everyone who can hear, “This is my beloved child, with whom I am well pleased.”
You see, in God’s eyes, we are enough. We are loved. Yes, we mess up; yes, we fall short. Yes, sometimes we are downright unlovable. But God’s love for us never falters.
That’s good news for us, even as it is also a challenge to us. Because it is very wonderful that God loves me, and you, so much. But that love also extends to other people – people we don’t know, people we don’t like, people who scare us. It extends to people of other colors and races, to people of different social or economic classes. God’s love extends to people who are Trump 2020 and people who would love to see a Warren/Sanders ticket in November. It extends to people waiting in detention centers on the border, and ICE agents, and people chomping at the bit for a war with Iran, and people proudly waving a rainbow flag. It extends to Mitch McConnell and to Nancy Pelosi, to the unborn child and to the Black Lives Matter activist. They are all God’s children, God’s beloved, too. As Peter proclaims before he baptizes Cornelius and his family (people who should not, by the way, have been considered a part of Christ’s community): God shows no partiality.
And so, this non-partial love that God shows to all God’s children is a challenge to us. Because as baptized people whom God dearly loves, we also are called to see one another as people who are beloved by God. In these divided times, when the gray area between right and wrong gets smaller by the day, when people seem to be just looking for a way to be combative, to prove they are right and the other side is wrong, when people seem to have lost the capacity to sit with someone who disagrees and really listen to that person’s pain without judgment… what if instead, we looked at one another and first remembered, “He is, first and foremost, a beloved child of God. She is beloved by God.” How would that change how we view one another? How far might that go toward healing our brokenness as a country? How might seeing each other as God sees us – beloved, and pleasing – change the way we talk to one another, and bring about peace in the world?
I think this is pretty important. And God must think it is pretty important, too, because God came to earth Himself to show us so – to be born of a human mother, to be baptized, to hang out with, heal, and bring hope to misfits and sinners and the lowest of society, to suffer and to die and to rise again so that we would no longer fear death…. All to show us just how much God loves us. Loves you! Just think if there was more of that love to go around!
I started this sermon with a story about a 1st grade teacher who heard loving words from a 6-year-old, and it changed her life. In baptism, God offers us such loving and life-changing words every day of our lives. You are God’s beloved children. God is pleased with you. You are enough. And God shows no partiality. Let us go into the world, as God’s beloved, to love one another so indiscriminately as God loves us.

Let us pray… God of love, thank you for loving us, even when we are, frankly, pretty unlovable. Help us, as your beloved children, to show no partiality in the way we love one another. In the name of the Father, and the Son, and the Holy Spirit. Amen. 

Image credit: Le Breton, Jacques ; Gaudin, Jean. Baptism of Christ, from Art in the Christian Tradition, a project of the Vanderbilt Divinity Library, Nashville, TN. http://diglib.library.vanderbilt.edu/act-imagelink.pl?RC=51568 [retrieved January 13, 2020]. Original source: Collection of Anne Richardson Womack.

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