Sunday, February 17, 2013

Sermon: Hungering for fulfillment (Or, How to Manage Temptation)


Lent 1C
February 17, 2013
Luke 4:1-13

Grace to you and peace from God our Father and our Lord Jesus Christ. Amen.

         If you have been around for a while, and you see a lot of advertisements, you may have noticed an evolution of advertising strategy. A PBS documentary called “The Persuaders” points it out. (This is available to watch online, if you are interested.) It used to be that advertisers focused on the quality of their product. You still see this of course, and this is really the least manipulative way to advertise! Then celebrity endorsements got to be a big thing. Now, the most persuasive advertisements don’t so much boast about the quality of the product, or about what famous person uses said product, but rather they focus on what the product means for your life. They paint a picture of a lifestyle that you could have… if you owned this product. Perhaps you see a classic, lovely, slightly hip living room full of smiling, attractive people, and they are all holding a particular wine glass... which can be found at Target for only $4.99 per glass. If you own a set of these glasses, this lovely dinner party could happen in your own home, and you could have all the friends to go with it! Your picture of what you’d like your life to look like can be a little closer to your grasp, if you only own this wine glass, that car, of the newest Apple product.
         How this evolved is that companies looked at cults and other organizations, and determined why people wanted to join them, and then applied the same principle to brands. Turned out, both operate with similar principles. People “join” a brand in search of some sort of fulfillment, to feel like they belong somewhere, and so brands began to fill what had previously been filled by churches, schools, etc. Someone told me once that people in American are on average more loyal to a brand of toothpaste than they are to a church denomination. Whoa!
         But really, it’s not such a surprise. Because people are hungry to belong, hungry for fulfillment. We want to be fulfilled in our jobs, in our family life, among our friends. The trouble is, this fulfillment can be difficult to come by, and we search for it among anything we can, especially if it is close at hand.
         And that is where we run into the problem of temptation – the very problem Jesus has in our Gospel reading today. The detail that jumped out at me in this text is that “Jesus was famished.” Famished, exhausted, weak, susceptible, vulnerable. Just exactly the state the devil wanted him in when he begins his tempting ways. And the first temptation is the most carnal of all – he suggests Jesus feed himself! Wow, what I wouldn’t give to be fed after 40 days without food. And the next two aren’t any easier: Jesus turns down authority over all the kingdoms of the world, and a chance to prove himself as the Son of God. Yet all of this, he turns down.
         Of course we’re not tempted by such dramatic things as these… or are we? We, too, hunger: for love, companionship, identity, belonging, purpose. We crave power: over the various circumstances in our lives that don’t go the way we would have liked. And we long for a chance to prove ourselves to the world: as people who matter. But the difference is that where Jesus knows exactly how those needs can be fulfilled – that is, by God alone – we, on the other hand, search for anything earthly that might be close at hand to fill them for us, whether that is the latest technology, or the hottest new fashion, or dozens of clever friends, or brilliant and successful children.
         Theologians have reflected on this concept of seeking to be filled by earthly things in many various ways. Blaise Pascal, a 17th century French philosopher, talked about a sort of God-shaped hole that lies within us. “This [hole] we try in vain to fill,” he writes, “with everything around us… [But] this infinite abyss can be filled only with an infinite and immutable object; in other words by God alone.” One contemporary theologian, Barbara Brown Taylor, compares this desperate longing we have to fill that hole with a baby’s pacifier. She writes, “Whenever we start feeling too empty inside, we stick our pacifiers into our mouths and suck for all we are worth. They do not nourish us, but at least they plug the hole.”
         What is particularly destructive is what we look for to be our un-nourishing “pacifiers.” These things become another word we are more familiar with: addictions. In our desperate attempts to plug the hole, we become tempted by whatever makes us feel better in the moment, be it alcohol, work, or shopping. And if it works once, we learn to rely on it to do the job every time – even as we know that these are only quick fixes, and not what will sustain us in the long run.
         Often, I think, we seek to fill that hole with stuff. Remember what I was saying earlier about advertising strategies? If ads can convince us that our lives are somehow lacking because we do not have this product, or put more positively, that our lives will be more whole and true if we do have this product, then it is no wonder that we go out and buy it. How tempting it then becomes to fill our God-shaped holes with stuff, and to let our stuff then define who we are. Tell me, if I were to walk into your house right now and look at your stuff, what would it say about you? Would your stuff accurately define who you are, or how you want to appear to the world?
This past week we started our midweek series on hunger. We talked about some of the hidden rules of poverty – that is, the different sets of rules that people unknowingly abide by depending on whether they dwell primarily in the lower, middle, or upper class. One set of rules is not better than another; they are just different, and often misunderstood by the other classes. One thing I often hear middle class people complain about is that people who live closer to the poverty line don’t manage well the money that they do have. Instead of saving it for when they might need it, they spend it on a big screen TV or a new iPhone. But think about it this way: when you see someone walking down the street with an iPhone, what assumptions do you make about them? It’s hip technology, it’s a slick product, it’s expensive… so this person must be: hip, “in,” and financially stable. Everything they want you to think about them. The phone becomes a way to feel fulfilled, worthy, accepted. It becomes a pacifier to fill the God-shaped hole.
We all have God-shaped holes, and we all are tempted by quick-fix pacifiers to plug the hole. But these things do not nourish us. Jesus knew that, of course, and so his response to the devil is to quote the word of God, Scripture, because that is something he knows he can trust, and something that is nourishing and sustaining. In other words, he lets God fill that hole, because indeed God is the only one who can.
This whole sermon, I’ve been referring to a place in us that seems to be lacking, that is a hole, a place where we experience hunger. What if instead of imagining that we are lacking, we imagine that this hollowness within us is not something bad or wrong, but rather, an uncluttered place in our soul into which God can enter and rule? If you feel loneliness, for example, don’t reach immediately for something to fill it – something earthly and fleeting. Instead, name the feeling, let yourself feel it, and imagine God entering into that emptiness. If you feel sadness: let yourself feel that hole, then let God come into it and nourish it. If you feel anxiety: notice that you feel anxious, then breathe deeply, letting the Spirit enter you just as it entered Jesus when he was led into the wilderness. And as you breathe out, let God remain in that place, fulfilling you and nourishing you in a way that nothing on earth ever can.
As you come forward to this table in a few minutes, hungry for fulfillment, remember these things. As you reach out your hands for bread, ask for this sacrament to fulfill you. As you feel it going down your throat, know that God is going into that part of yourself that needs filling. And as you return to your seats, remember that Christ goes with you, fulfilling and nourishing you, wherever you go.
In the name of the Father, and the Son, and the Holy Spirit. Amen.

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