Sunday, February 24, 2013

Sermon: Hungering for Safety (Feb. 24, 2013)


Lent 2C
Genesis 15:1-12, 17-18; Ps. 27; Luke 13:31-35

         A lot of people have asked me how Michael and I met. I love “how we met” stories, so I’m happy to share: we met online, on a free dating site. The best part of sharing that fact is seeing what reaction we get from people. If they are in our generation, then usually it’s, “Oh yeah, I’m on the site, too,” or “Oh, I met my spouse there, too.” This might even be the response from an older crowd – I know more and more couples, even retirement age, who met online, including my uncle! But there are always some, and likely even many of you, who think, “Online dating?? Is that even safe?!”
         Thing is, the stories you hear in the news about weirdos finding people online and stalking them and doing bad stuff – those are only the stories you hear about. There are many, many more stories that are not newsworthy, like, “Two people went out on a date, and then they fell madly in love and got married.” I could just as easily meet someone in a bar, at a dinner party, or even in church who is dangerous, and in that case, I wouldn’t even have had a chance to do a Google background check on them! (Yeah, I did that for Michael… he did it for me, too! Turns out, neither of us is crazy!) Online dating is just as safe – or as dangerous – as any sort of dating, maybe even safer.
         But ours is a culture that often gets caught up in fear and safety. We find so many things in this life to be afraid of, and at some point even perfectly safe things become boogie-men to us: big scary things that are going to come and get us, but that are, in reality, only in our imagination. Still, we take extra precaution, because among the many sorts of hungers that we feel, we have a hunger for safety.
         Just look at our Psalm for today. The Psalms are wonderful for many reasons, one of which is that they often speak directly to our very human emotions and experience. Throughout this Psalm, the Psalmist refers to several things that cause us to fear, things from which we seek safety: evildoers, foes and enemies; war; loneliness; family strife; violence… Even centuries later, these are the very sorts of things that we still fear, from which we seek safety. Even if we feel safe at this particular moment, there’s no telling when loneliness will creep up on us, or sadness, or anxiety, or any number of things from which we long to keep ourselves safe and protected.
         One looming danger from which we hunger for safety is apparent in our Old Testament reading, and that is doubt. In the part of the Abraham story we hear today, Abraham (who at this point is still Abram), is having some serious doubts. He is old and despite that God has assured him countless descendants, he still hasn’t had even one proper heir. He has just one child, but that is the son of Abram’s slave girl, and this fact embarrasses Abram. But he and his wife Sarai are old, so he is understandably doubtful that they will ever conceive a child together.
         We have been there – we know in theory that God will provide and protect, be our “shield,” as God promises Abram, but sometimes that is just really hard to believe, and we find ourselves overcome by doubt. I guess God has a plan, we think, but it sure isn’t apparent to me right now. I know I should believe this or that, but I just have a really hard time getting on board with that. Surely God will make something good of this, but right now, that is hard to believe. Even as we try to trust and believe God, doubt sometimes gets the best of us.
         And that’s what we need safety from: not doubt, but letting doubt get the best of us. Because doubt, in and of itself, is not a bad thing. I feel a lot better about doubt than I do about blind, thoughtless belief, because even as doubt challenges faith, it has the potential ultimately to strengthen our relationship with God. Furthermore, there is biblical precedent for doubt. Abraham is the shining biblical example of faith and trust, and yet here he is, doubting. See, doubt and faith are not opposites; they are a part of each other. But what puts us in danger of doubt getting the best of us is letting it eat away at us without acknowledging it, keeping it hidden away, secret, and consequently letting it drive us into despair. Don’t keep your doubt shoved in a bottle! It is okay to ask questions. I love it when you ask me questions! Abram asks questions. The Psalmist does it. Jesus’ disciples do it. I certainly do it. When we are willing to ask questions, we leave ourselves available for God to come into us, and consequently, to keep us safe, to be our “shield,” as he promises to Abram.
         Another thing from which we seek safety, and what the Psalmist especially dwells on, is our enemies. The way the Psalms talk about enemies can be confusing to us sometimes. When we think of enemies, we normally think of people, and those of us who are so lucky might then think, “But I don’t have any enemies.” So let’s broaden the definition, then. One classic way to think about enemies, especially in the Psalms, is as sin. That is, your enemy is anything that pulls you away from a relationship with God. Last week we talked about being captive to addictions or to illness – these can certainly be considered enemies. An unhealthy behavior can be an enemy – maybe you spend too much time at work and not enough with your family. Maybe you are a stress eater, and so food becomes your enemy. There are lots of little enemies that creep into our lives, sometimes without our even knowing it. How do we keep safe from them?
         As with doubt, it’s not so much that we need to keep safe from the enemies themselves. Like with doubt, it’s not unusual to have an experience with one of these enemies, and after your struggling with it you come out on the other side stronger, wiser, or closer to God. So again, it’s not so much the enemies themselves that are a problem, but rather, it is when we let our enemies have power over us.
         Our Gospel text is a lesson in how not to let enemies get the best of us. The Jesus that we see in today’s text is… well frankly, kind of snarky! “Go tell that fox for me, listen up!” he says. Such confidence! Did he not just hear that Herod is out to kill him? That’s a warning I would think is worth heeding!
         But Jesus is unswayed. For one thing, he can probably tell that the Pharisees issuing this “warning” to him do not have his best interest in mind. They probably just want him out of town, and thought this might get the job done. Second, Herod is powerful, yes – but he is not God. And Jesus is confident that he is there doing God’s work, the very thing he was sent to do: casting out demons and performing cures. He is there to bring safety and health and salvation to God’s people, even as he prepares to turn his head toward Jerusalem, where he will bring about the ultimate salvation for God’s people – the part of the story we will get to in a few weeks. So what is to notice about Jesus’ interaction here is this: his physical enemies are after him. Perhaps his spiritual ones are as well – though Luke doesn’t go into that here. But even as his enemies are on the prowl, Jesus’ confidence remains with God, and in the fact that he is living out God’s mission. As the Psalmist writes, “The Lord is the stronghold of my life. Of whom shall I be afraid?” Certainly not that fox, Herod, nor any of our enemies!
         This week I got an email with the subject, “In God (not guns) we trust.” Receiving that in the context of working on this sermon, I thought, Wow, whatever your stance on gun control laws, I hope we can agree on that! We go to great lengths to protect ourselves, to keep ourselves safe – with more guns, with fewer guns, with more laws, with fewer laws... And yes, safety is good – I’m not telling you not to wear your seatbelt when you leave church today! But at the end of the day, we cannot find our safety only in earthly things. Guns and seatbelts and traffic laws won’t keep us safe from the ever-present threat of those spiritual dangers we face. Only God is our safety from these dangers. Our stronghold is the Lord. 
That doesn’t mean God will eliminate all those dangerous things from our lives – we will still doubt, we will still be challenged by our enemies, whether people or illness or behavior. It does mean that Christ walks with us in those things. It does mean that, if we allow God to be present with us as we endure life’s challenges, then we might just grow from them instead of be hurt by them. And it does mean that through all of our doubts, our challenges, our enemies, our questions – everything! – God will continue to love us, from now until eternity.
Let us pray… Lord God, with you as the stronghold of our lives, we have nothing to fear. Guide us to satisfy our hunger for safety by looking to your Son, who feeds us and loves us and walks along with us through all of our fears, doubts, and challenges. In the name of the Father, and the Son, and the Holy Spirit. Amen.

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